dating
Sex Week
A few weeks ago, Harvard University joined a group of colleges including Brown, Northeastern and Washington University in doing a program called ‘Sex Week.’ Sex Week is a student, week long program in which a series of lectures and panel discussions talk about safe sex, rape prevention, and STDs in addition to topics such as…Read More +
HIV Positive Dating
A first date can be scary for anyone, but for those living with HIV, it can be down right terrifying. Fearing that a single detail about yourself could make another person turn and run away, can be a huge deterrent in the face of meeting someone new. But, fortunately, that experience no longer has to…Read More +
Tongues United
Drooling. Slobbery lips. Doritos breath. Clumsy groping. The old toilet-plunger-tongue. Anyone of these gaffes can drain the romance from a kiss faster than spilling bongwater in your date’s lap. For most of us, the do’s and don’t’s of making out are as clear as our own spit, but some people just don’t get it. We’ve…Read More +
Straight Men Suck
Straight men suck They call the 1-900- REALLY-I’M-STRAIGHT line, they leave their girlfriends and wives, find the nearest truckstop or nightclub, and there, in the smoky darkness of wide-open anonymity, they suck. They just suck. They suck off their lawyer friends, their business partners, their uncles and their wide receivers. In more ways than one,…Read More +
Is Looking Cheating?
The other day a friend of mine complained about his girlfriend and her habit of pointing to other men and exclaiming how “hot” they were. Unfortunately, he lashed out at her the last time it happened, calling her immature. They fought – and now the relationship is over. So – was he wrong to flip…Read More +
Dump Your Boyfriend
Dear Red Hot, I sometimes feel more alone when I am with my boyfriend than when I am by myself. Sure, he does nice things for me. He writes me cute notes, tapes my favorite shows, and I really like his family. But he doesn’t really talk to me. I’m scared because I love him…Read More +
